
I’ve often found that the worlds of medicine and entrepreneurship are not as disparate as they might seem at first glance. Both are arenas of high stakes, uncertainty, and deeply personal journeys. This week, as I sat across from a startup founder narrating their struggles, I was struck by how similar their experience was to that of a patient battling infertility.
In my clinic, I’ve seen the emotional rollercoaster that comes with each failed IVF cycle. Hope, disappointment, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of a dream — these are emotions that both founders and patients know all too well. I recalled a particularly poignant episode with a patient who, after multiple failed IVF attempts, still managed to muster the courage to try again. Her story, one of grit and determination, mirrors that of countless entrepreneurs I’ve encountered.
Recently, I met with a founder who had poured her heart into a femtech startup. Her mission was deeply personal, driven by her own struggles with infertility. She had left a stable job at a tech giant to build something that could help others navigate the lonely journey of infertility — a decision that resonated with the many trade-offs my patients often face. She spoke candidly about the challenges of bootstrapping her company, about the skepticism faced when pitching a problem that is still considered taboo by many. It reminded me of the societal stigma that surrounds infertility, a subject that remains shrouded in silence despite affecting millions.
Navigating the healthcare system in India can be daunting, much like the startup ecosystem. Patients and founders alike face a barrage of information, much of it conflicting, and must make critical decisions with limited resources. I’ve often thought that what startup founders could learn from my most candid IVF patients is the value of perseverance in the face of adversity.
In the startup world, failure is a stepping stone, not a dead end. This mindset is something I try to impart to my patients as well. An unsuccessful IVF cycle is not the end of the road. It’s a chance to learn, recalibrate, and try a different approach. Similarly, a failed business model or product launch is an opportunity to pivot and innovate. Both journeys require a support system — a community of peers, mentors, and experts who can provide guidance and encouragement when the going gets tough.
I’ve found that the best startup advice often comes from patient conversations. The ability to listen, empathize, and respond to the unspoken fears and hopes of a patient is a skill that serves me well when mentoring founders. It’s about understanding the human side of the equation, whether it’s in the consulting room or the boardroom.
As I reflected on the parallels between these two worlds, I was reminded of the importance of story. Both patients and founders are authors of their own narratives, navigating the highs and lows with courage and hope. In sharing their stories, they not only find healing but also inspire others who walk the same path.
In conclusion, the struggles of a startup founder and an IVF patient are intertwined by the same threads of hope, perseverance, and a relentless quest for success. Whether it’s bringing a new life into the world or a new idea to market, the journey is deeply personal and profoundly human. And as I continue to straddle these worlds, I am reminded daily of the resilience of the human spirit and the power of shared stories to transform lives.